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How to give a hand job

Did you know one of the main reasons gay men step out of their relationships is because they were no longer satisfied in bed? Often as gay men when we get hot and heavy down come the trousers and open goes the mouth. While there’s nothing wrong with that can you add some great variety to your love life by giving great hand jobs!  Read more on not just how to give a hand job but how to give a great hand job!

But I haven’t don’t that since high school!

I know I know many gay guys think hand jobs are so high school but that’s simply because they’re not doing it right. A good hand job can make your man cum like it was his first time. A great hand-job can make him cum and then cum back for more!

Here’s how to give a great hand job

Get him excited!

While we’re going to talk about the physical aspects sexual stimulation is as much psychological as it is physical. You can learn how to give a hand job by following the steps below but if you want to give a great hand job you need to get him going first. Make sure the mood is set and he’s anticipating what’s going to happen. Tell him how sexy he is like you mean it.  Make sure you smile (but not a forced fake smile). Bottom line is he needs to feel like in that moment he is the only thing that matters to you and that you’re so into him! Please remember it’s important not to go overboard on these things! You could end up killing the mood if he feels like you’re exaggerating. 

Know your man

Every man likes to get stimulated differently.  Some guys use 2 fingers and the thumb. Other guys like to cuff the entire hand. You’ve got to experiment around and find what works for him. Experimentation is your friend. As Aliyah said If at first you don’t succeed dust yourself off and try again

Start out before going in

We’ve seen from porn and other movies that we just want to rip those pants off and get right down to business. While that makes for good drama the reality often doesn’t conform to good screen time. Its best to start off kissing and then moving your hand down his body until you reach his crotch. Once your in his fun zone rub it and gently grab it from the outside. You want him to be fully hard or close to fully hard before you whip it out. He may be embarrassed for you to see it before its standing at full attention.

The wetter the better

You want to simulate the feeling of f*cking as best as you can. The easiest way is to useF lubricant. We recommend an oil based lubricant like astroglide. Why? Because those water based lubes get sticky really quickly and can create an unpleasant experience.

Different strokes make happier folks

A big mistake a lot of guys make is to make the same repetitive stroke over and over. Mix it up. Try stroking it up with two fingers then a full hand. Grab it harder then softer. Make sure you look at him and smile while you’re doing it. Half the fun is he needs to know you’re enjoying what you’re doing to him

It’s a whole package not just a bat

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A lot of guys forget about the balls because they’re too busy concentrating on the bat. This is quite ironic since we all know the balls can produce a lot of pleasure as well. Don’t forget to gently caress his testicles as well.

Press the perineum

The perineum is the area between the scrotum and his anus. You’d be surprised how much stimulation you can get by gentle pressing on his perineum during a handjob.

The anus

Whether the guy wants anal stimulation depends on the guy or not. If he’s a top the answer ranges from somewhat maybe to hell no and he’s a bottom chances are good he’ll like having his balloon knot tickled a bit. If he’s the latter all you need to do is slowly run your finger to the perineum to his balloon knot. Make sure its still lubed up. Circle your finger around the hole and see how he reacts. If he starts making noses you’re golden! Run your finger gently around it some more until you feel like you’re ready to dive in. Diving in is actually a misnomer since that could create an unpleasant experience and possibly ruin the whole thing. You want to try to go into there slowly and gently. Don’t force it! If its not meant to be then its not meant to be. If you can’t get in there just keep playing with his mangina with one hand and stroking his shaft with the other.

The finish

Another big mistake a lot of guys make is to stop immediately after he starts cumming.  If you want to make it a great hand job your job isn’t quite finished yet. Once you feel the water works begin to happen that’s when you start making noise. Its nice to get verbal. Encourage him to cum ‘yeah let me see that cum daddy’ ‘yeah baby let it out’ are personal favorites that I like to hear.  It goes back to the first point of making sure he knows you’re enjoying it too.

Stroke by Stroke Complete Hand Job Guide

A handjob manual that’s made for the ladies but useful for gay men that gives you more detailed tips as well as instructional videos on how to give the best hand jobs and make sure he never steps out again.

Oprah’s love expert reveals the hand job tips and secrets that give all men intoxicating pleasure. Afterwards, he will be so passionately in love with you and NEVER want to let you go.  

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